Sunday, February 19, 2006

A friend told me this: "Missing someone does not make me happy" and that got me thinking.

How about if missing someone makes someone happy because they realize that there must have been something "real" to even miss the other person in the first place.

How about if missing someone makes someone happy because they know that they have "felt" something, an exquisite feeling of being alive?

How about if missing someone makes someone happy because they have the good times to look forward to?

Basically, what about the intangible? I mean that it is possible to find comfort in something that seems non-existant to other people.

If you miss someone, is it preferable to be sad? or would you rather be happy? Which emotion professes the existance of an attachment?

1 comment:

mysticgypsy said...

Hi Golgotha! :)
I agree with you.
However, when we say we'd rather be missing somone dear, does it not also mean we gain some satisfaction in doing so, which translates into happiness(?!)

Yeah..and subsititution of a loved one just does not work :-\